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上高中的时候，偶然进书店，拿起一本英文格言书，没想到，里面的几句格言一直激励和安慰自己一辈子。

Love like you've never been hurt .

Dance like nobody's watching.

Sing like nobody's listening.

work like you don't need the money .

Live like it's heaven on earth.

--------Alfred D’Souza

翻译过来就是：

去爱吧，就像不曾受过伤一样

跳舞吧，像没有人会欣赏一样

唱歌吧，像没有人会聆听一样

工作吧，像是不需要金钱一样

生活吧，就像今天是末日一样

谁不曾受过爱的伤？上不曾希望得到别人的关注和肯定？谁不曾厌倦日复一日的平淡？谁又没有想过赶快把平庸的日子过完？

但是，我们完全可以选择相反的态度，就像诗歌里说的一样。

今天的惊喜是，竟然发现了我高中时期喜爱的作者的另一篇小哥：幸福是一个旅程。

17岁的时候，读到你的诗。42岁的时候，再次读到作者的小哥，青春的穿越，一如既往地喜爱。

与君共享

幸福是一个旅程

我们说服自己，在我们结婚、生了孩子，然后又生了孩子之后，生活会变得更好。然后，我们为孩子们还不够大感到沮丧，当他们长大后，我们会更加满足。在那之后，我们对有青少年要处理感到沮丧。当他们脱离那个阶段时，我们一定会很高兴。

我们告诉自己，当我们的配偶一起行动，当我们拥有一辆更好的汽车，当我们退休时，我们的生活将是完整的。

事实是，没有比现在更好的时间去快乐了。如果不是现在，什么时候？

你的生活将永远充满挑战。最好对自己承认这一点，并决定无论如何都要快乐。

我最喜欢的一句话来自阿尔弗雷德·D·索萨。他说：“在很长一段时间里，我觉得生活即将开始——真实的生活。但总是有一些障碍，一些事情要先完成，一些未完成的生意，还需要一些时间，或者一笔债务要偿还。然后生活就会开始。最后我才明白，这些障碍就是我的生活。”

这种观点帮助我认识到，没有通往幸福的道路。幸福就是道路本身。所以，珍惜你所拥有的每一刻，并更加珍惜它，因为你与一个特别的人分享了它，这个人特别到足以与你共度时光……记住，时间不等人。

所以，不要等到你完成学业，等到你回到学校，等到你减掉10磅，等到你长了10磅，等到你有了孩子，等到你的孩子长大离家，等到你开始工作，等到你退休，等到你结婚，等到你分手，等到星期五晚上，等到星期天早上，等到你买了一辆新车或房子，等到夏天，等到春季，等到春季，等到第一天或第十五天，等到你喝了一杯，等到你酒醒，等到你伤去，等到你再次出生，你会发现，绝对没有比现在更好的时间来选择快乐和幸福了。

幸福是一段旅程，而不是目的地。

附原文：

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we’re frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content when they are. After that, we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We’ll certainly be happy when they’re out of that stage.

We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.

The truth is, there’s no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It’s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said, “For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin – real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.”

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with…and remember that time waits for no one.

So, stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you’re off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you’ve had a drink, until you’ve sobered up, until you die, until you’re born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Copyright © 1997 Crystal Boyd

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